Change the current environment to become a better you.

Sometimes we need to make changes to the outer world  environment so that we can change our inner world. This is important for body and soul. It will give you the opportunity to make a change easier within yourself.  To answer that question.

Same environment, same result.

You need to hear my story from the past. I was born in Germany and left Germany wen I was 23 yeas old for the USA. Of course I visit my parents as often as I could. After the third visit I become aware of something that I never noticed before. As soon as I opened the front door and steeped into my parents house I became emotionally about 12 years old. In reality I was 31 years old at that time. That was an interesting experience to see me go back to be and become a child again. One can ask, How is that possible?

Let me explain how that transformation takes place.

As soon as I stepped into  my parents home I realized that nothing, absolutely nothing has changed. I am talking about from my parents to my brothers and sisters, they have not changed at all. Even the house still smells and feels exactly the same way when I left 20 years earlier.

The conversation we had were exactly the same we had 20 years earlier about the neighbors and about other people. It became clear to others that my hole life has changed, my outlook, my perception of what is important to me, that changed the dynamic of the conversation. So, when I expressed the changes that needed to be done within me, I was told not to talk about it. This could upset other people and made them uncomfortable. In reality it was upsetting my family that one can change for the better and still enjoy a different life cycle on this green earth.

Changes are a good thing.

On the other side they were stuck in there way of life without making any changes in there lives. When you change your environment you have the greatest opportunity to change yourself. This can be done when you meet new people. You can project to be a new person and a different person, the one you want to become. After a while you will grow into that person.

Take your time, you can do it.

This is the change you were looking for. Give it your best, give it time and the karma of good change will follow you. Let the inner voice guide you through the ups and downs. After a while you become that person you always dreamed of but could not make the change at your parents house. They would never let you make that change, they will keep you the way you were as a child. In fact, they try to talk you out of you wanting to change. With any way possible. If you do not change, they for sure do not want to change. Change is scary for them. 

Family members, Friend or foe?

Even family members will suddenly behave differently in front of you. They also will stab you in the back for sure. For not just having the desire to make a change in your life but also that you are still working on new behavior to become and be happier.
Norby’s Recommendation:
It is time to start looking at your current environment to see if it helps you, hinders you or even slows you down in life. If so, it is time to change the way you live and use this opportunity to become a better self.

Norby